The point of no return

In life, we do make a lot of mistakes and lose our control. Earlier I used to think it was
only death which brought an end to a relationship with a person and that it was “the point
of no return”. At least that is how my life was…

But recently, a particular relationship taught me that an end and a point of no return came
even when the two people are around each other.
Some people in our life come and go; it doesn’t hurt us when those who leave are not
important to us. But when we consider someone important and they leave us, life seems
like a misery… a misfortune…

The reasons behind this partition could be any, from misunderstandings to fights or sheer
understanding to let go the person. Could be anything!!!!!!!!

But the truth hits us hard when we realize that, that person is no more part of your life…
It did for me. THE POINT OF NO RETURN to the relationship we shared.

Many times we try to work out things, to change or what ever. But it’s not possible.
Maybe it’s what we are and sometimes it’s how we react to what we get!

It could be lame to give reasons for our losses and mistakes but if we keep on blaming
our self, we will get no where!!

These are lessons and everything happens for a reason. I believe strongly in that!
There cannot be learning without a mistake and it cannot be a mistake while learning…

Believe me my friend, if a relationship is very important for you; never even get to “the
point of no return” by yourself for it might hurt you more than when it happens naturally.

Is it just a card?

Yesterday, I was just going through some of my old stuff and I found a dozen of greeting cards. It took me back years and wondered if I am even in touch with some of them.


Cards have words; but do those mean anything?

Some friends had given me “Friends Forever” cards and we aren’t even in touch today. But definitely it helped me in bringing back the memory who I was and what I am today.

The current emotions of a person are expressed as words and so do the cards have…

Indeed am very glad that those who gave me the cards were in that emotion and am thankful to them for having had the time and thought to get me one.

We should value these cards and treasure them for sometime, for when you’re all alone all by yourself; all you might have is these cards to kindle your good memories!

Maybe am not in touch with many of the friends who had shared such stuff with me in earlier years, but definitely we are there in each other’s memories and have learnt a lot through them. This is why they say maybe –

Life is like a book and every person you meet is a chapter!!

Some chapters end, some chapters are yet to begin…

And in every ending there is a new beginning…. :)
So let me not really criticize someone for sharing a card with just WORDS and take them as a gift to help me move on and make me feel who I was and where am I today….

And which I like better… because the choice of who you want to be is in your hands...