In life, we do make a lot of mistakes and lose our control. Earlier I used to think it was
only death which brought an end to a relationship with a person and that it was “the point
of no return”. At least that is how my life was…
But recently, a particular relationship taught me that an end and a point of no return came
even when the two people are around each other.
Some people in our life come and go; it doesn’t hurt us when those who leave are not
important to us. But when we consider someone important and they leave us, life seems
like a misery… a misfortune…
The reasons behind this partition could be any, from misunderstandings to fights or sheer
understanding to let go the person. Could be anything!!!!!!!!
But the truth hits us hard when we realize that, that person is no more part of your life…
It did for me. THE POINT OF NO RETURN to the relationship we shared.
Many times we try to work out things, to change or what ever. But it’s not possible.
Maybe it’s what we are and sometimes it’s how we react to what we get!
It could be lame to give reasons for our losses and mistakes but if we keep on blaming
our self, we will get no where!!
These are lessons and everything happens for a reason. I believe strongly in that!
There cannot be learning without a mistake and it cannot be a mistake while learning…
Believe me my friend, if a relationship is very important for you; never even get to “the
point of no return” by yourself for it might hurt you more than when it happens naturally.
This 'Point Of No Return' can happen many times with many people,in life. But each experience gives you valuable lessons that cannot be learned in any other way. If that happened in your life, then surely you will pass through it also..that's a rule in nature! :)
ReplyDeleteYes Remya, I cannot to what you say, at the same time..
DeleteIt shouldn't happen through out life leaving with only with experiences and no people.. But definitely I have to agree tht it did happen in my life and hoping to pass through it.. :) writing helps me now...
typo on my line 1 due to some prob with my keyboard..
DeleteIt should read "Yes Remya, I cannot DISAGREE to what you say, at the same time.. "