Where am I heading in this fast paced world? My life seems to be a big question!
There are times when I think, why are we born? What’s the purpose of our existence in this world…? How much ever I ponder over this I never get to a solution and I end up being in square one… My life seems to be a big question!
Alright, starting from the things around me…
I have got loads of friends and a huge family… I spend all my time with them and they are my asset. As we know, there are 3 kinds of people whom we come across…
One, for a reason.
Two, seasonal
And three for a lifetime….
Ok great… I have met such people in my life. Does that complete the purpose of my life?
But there’s no peace... Neither at home nor with friends. There are disputes everywhere
Alright… these are also part of life, that’s what people say and you learn from them… for what? What’s the reason to learn when you’re going to get back to the same kind of people and to still ponder … what’s the meaning to my life? But one thing is for sure, if we don’t have people around us, then life seems meaningless…
Hence one solution I get here is:
People around me make “My World”
Next…my career.
I have completed my graduation. The fighting spirit in this competent world has reduced in me for I don’t understand the purpose of it. Competition must be there but it should be a healthy one. But today we find people are on a stampede in the name of competition.
Alright… I achieve something even in that competition… so what’s next?
I really don’t know… clueless…
Building your career??? Yes!
I have 2 options... Either to pursue my higher education or to work!
Either of the 2 is going to end in working for income in the long run….
Some categorize people that s/he has done/doing her/his masters… so they’re efficient and successful… why??? Aren’t the rest successful?
Then comes income along with this… who earns more? Who saves more? Who doesn’t waste money? Huh!!
What are we earning for then?
Just to dine with the 1st “My World” or to go for a movie with them and to spend time with “My World” is wrong, then career becomes important and it should be “My World” now!
Next is my asset.
In accordance with my latest “My World”, as I said... Income becomes part of career… your assets decide your status which in turn decides if your successful or not!
A man/woman who owns a house and has enough bank balance is said to be successful considering his/her capability and smartness.
Alright, the cost of living is high in this world now and the one who is earning more can invest more. So what about the rest?
I would say that a person, who is able to manage his income be it meager or huge, is successful!
So this is “My World” now to be successful with the asset I have through the career which was “My World” before….
Next is my new family
Yes, I mean about marriage and life after that. Be it a man/woman he/she changes his/her lifestyle after marriage. That’s what the laws of marriage (not literally the Law) seem to be! A woman gets new relationship terms such as husband, in-laws etc… and similarly a man gets terms such as wife, in-laws etc.
Leaving aside the cultural differences across the world, and in general, a man and his wife starts building their “My world” with their new home and new relations where the kid comes in.
Yes now my kid/s would be “My world”. I would create his/her new world of friends, family, career, income, assets and finally her/his new family and the cycle repeats!
So is this all life?
All of us are here to achieve this, then why on earth do we have riots, terrorism or any such violence! There should be a winning edge but it should be an edge by not pushing the competitors down….
When, what you seek in life is happiness, why people have to show other facets such as jealousy, ego, dominance, hatred etc….
Rather love and affection can help everyone achieve their goals….
Everyone is born to die someday. Of course no one waits for it… but why don’t we believe that just like you, even your counter part has only life…
Live and let live…. Is what is required in this world now. We are not going to leave behind anything except the fact that how good a human you were for your future generation!
“My World” cannot be redefined but in totality, it includes my family, family, career and achievements. But when there’s nothing to lose, why sit and brood about it…
I would like “My World” to be happy without any mishaps for there’s just one life!
LIVE AND LET LIVE!!
