He waited!!

Today I accompanied my nephews to a nearby park...
Its summer vacation now and the park was full of kids.

A few on the swings; some on the slides and some playing in the mud.
A lot of people were out for their evening walk.
A good evening to spend there indeed.

My younger nephew was in the slides and I was baby sitting him.
The slide as we all know has the steps on one inclination and the slide on the other.
There were lot of kids getting on to them.
It was technically a queue on the steps side of it and kids were a little barging to get on before another steps on!

I just noticed my nephew... allowing another kid to hop on to the steps and he waited a little aside; till he did that

YES .... You got me right -- he was behaving like in a PROPER queue !!!

He is just 4 years old and he knows what a queue is - we kept repeating ONE BY ONE!
and he followed and behaved himself...

Whatever be it; I just enjoyed and was more astonished to find him with a lot of patience for his turn to slide
and to let another kid ahead of him...

Am sure he would have this throughout his life and Im just waiting to see how he turns out to be as he gets older...
He made me day :)

Life's ups and downs!!

I dont know if this blog is heading on a positive or negative note...
but for sure just as life has both; this blog also will have both I assume....

Whats making me talk about LIFE?! A big word indeed right?
LIFE is indeed beautiful for some and not so for a few.
Some feel its a bliss; some feel its a pain; some enjoy life; some say life sucks!!

So does it mean that one gets it and another doesnt?!

No we all have a life....
But whats the difference?

Is it what we choose? The education; family; friends; work; society; relationships????
Or is it the way we build them?

When the sun sets in one side of the earth; its morning the other side!
Similarly; in India when there a new baby born; in Australia someone's life might have come to an end... for some reason.

We are all given life; one life; is my belief.....
You can live your life however you want; cause thats yours....

But you cannot live another person's life.
You cannot expect someone else to follow your thoughts; coz they are individuals too with their own life.

But what's important is the values and the way you lead your life.
Its simple -- according to me; anything that gives you happiness do that as long as it does not hurt another's happiness.

Cause we all want happiness. Leading a life just for yourself will not give it....
Live for you and all around you.
Love thoroughly!!

Probably love is the most beautiful thing which explains life.
Some feel the reason we are born is to fall in love; meet one's soul mate :)

But life sucks at times - when there is hatred; jealousy; greed; war; fight!
This is what we hear from people.

When there's something overwhelming and joyous happening on one side of your life...
on the other side there are times when you lose your loved ones by death or separation.

Death - a biggest threat to life - opposite to life!
but separation sans death is something we choose or destined!

Wow yaar; lotta related words come in while talking about life!

Destiny -- my Fav!
I believe in destiny too.. Its different to fate...

I can keep on writing about life; but this abstract about it leaves me also confusing...

what do you want in life? :)