Life is never a fairy tale

Life is never a fairy tale. Every moment has a surprise waiting for you…

Life always teaches you lessons in the toughest way possible. It cannot decide who you are but can show
you who you can become.
I personally value people and relationships the most in life and I realized the value of someone only
when they are not with me. Why did I even have to go the extent of making a mistake to come to this
realization?

Your rough patches in life reveal the worst in you that you yourself wouldn't have imagined.
On the positive side, it’s during these rough patches that you can see how much you value self with
confidence to fight over it.

It happened to me too. I felt so little about my actions. My behavior. It was new, I dint know I that's how I would react to it.
I always needed a motivation from someone who would support me. Someone who is close to me and
someone who would only say “You’re right Krupa”. We do go and seek for consolation only from such
people right… because no self is ready to accept he or she is wrong…

That’s when I asked myself – why no self-motivation?
And I answered myself -> when you are questioned about yourself by another person (not self), you
can have a reason to explain your actions but when you question YOURSELF about your actions, a self-
motivation is never possible. That’s when you seek a friend to understand who you are sometimes.

But please note my friend that, no amount of blaming can take you even a step forward.
These are just rough patches in life and I tell myself to get over them that – “No one can make you feel
inferior without your consent”.

Emotionally Tangled

What does emotion mean?

A natural instinctive state of mind deriving from one’s circumstances, mood, or relationships with others

This is what the dictionary says….

It is indeed a feeling, an instinctive act of a living being reacting to a situation.

Each living react differently to the same situation is hand, sometimes.

This is the emotional quotient of him or her.

This EQ takes over the IQ of people in situations and that’s what I call Emotionally Tangled!

 I define Emotionally Tangled as a state of confusion whether to take a decision over a situation applying your emotions or intelligence.

This is completely objective and perspective to the situation in hand.

Women are considered to be the emotionally weaker gender. It is true because they get attached to people emotionally and any dejection is hard for her to accept.

However, the time she takes to get over an emotional breakdown could be faster than that of a male counterpart because she lets out her emotions whereas men keep it to themselves.

Medically, I have read that, this is the reason the number of men having heart attacks are more than of women. Men keep their emotions to themselves and end up getting stressed.

In today’s practical world, an emotional weakness is not good for any gender. It’s a fast growing society with changes being everywhere. So let’s not get attached to any emotional cluster and struggle to break free from it.

Relationships are important. Am stressing here only on the emotionally tangled situations which lead us to nowhere…