Life is never a fairy tale

Life is never a fairy tale. Every moment has a surprise waiting for you…

Life always teaches you lessons in the toughest way possible. It cannot decide who you are but can show
you who you can become.
I personally value people and relationships the most in life and I realized the value of someone only
when they are not with me. Why did I even have to go the extent of making a mistake to come to this
realization?

Your rough patches in life reveal the worst in you that you yourself wouldn't have imagined.
On the positive side, it’s during these rough patches that you can see how much you value self with
confidence to fight over it.

It happened to me too. I felt so little about my actions. My behavior. It was new, I dint know I that's how I would react to it.
I always needed a motivation from someone who would support me. Someone who is close to me and
someone who would only say “You’re right Krupa”. We do go and seek for consolation only from such
people right… because no self is ready to accept he or she is wrong…

That’s when I asked myself – why no self-motivation?
And I answered myself -> when you are questioned about yourself by another person (not self), you
can have a reason to explain your actions but when you question YOURSELF about your actions, a self-
motivation is never possible. That’s when you seek a friend to understand who you are sometimes.

But please note my friend that, no amount of blaming can take you even a step forward.
These are just rough patches in life and I tell myself to get over them that – “No one can make you feel
inferior without your consent”.